Hi S I also agree most of them have OW sometimes not right away..MY H started acting weird while still at home at that time I too was sure there was no OW after he moved out I felt there was probably ow but he aleways said no he visited alot and always lied about his living arrangements and never brought her to meet kids I just found out hw is living with her since 10/07 he moved out 6/07 bomb 2/07 I am almost certian she was in the picture at bomb or soon after although he might have waited to have physical Affair till after he moved so I agree they usually have someone but will deny it peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow