I can so relate to what you are saying.

It has been quite an adjustment for me to have no one in the house when the kids are with ex.

What has helped me is when I feel that way I go down to the local coffee shop with a good book and camp out there for a while.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11