You know Frank, reading all of this kind of reminds me of something. My D15 at one point asked me what was taking me so long and how much crap I was going to tolerate from Carrie before I put my foot down. I was so worried about what the kids would think and didn't want them to be upset because dad was putting mom out. Reality is, the limbo land and crazy schedule takes a tole on the kids.
Sometimes cut and dry is the simplest route and easiest for them to digest.
I tried to call you but all I have is your work number. Can't figure out where I put the other one so call me will ya.....
