I'm not sure what to say, as there is so much unsaid in yuor posts. You mention being stressed and crying about "other stuff" and holding off until a decision point in January (to do with you? Not H?). Its a bit mysterious, but then its private right. I cant tell what things you are saying to him and therefore, how to judge his reactions to you. But.. I hope you are ok! It sounds like you are having an emotional time of sorts..? He does seem to be able to take it though, whatever it is..
You are very brave offering the D and saying you can talk about the and he still seems reluctant..My ex was too earlier. I dont get it, I was straight with ex's when I had moved on to the next man. I am pretty amazed at ANY presents.. but yes 4.. thats overkill! Who gets 4 for a mate, or an ex? Just wierd.
The reference to 500.. is that 500 days, that he has been gone? I thought thats what you meant, wierd that he has no concept of time (what with that and nieces ages).
I'm sorry that he continues to be so unclear, to hold your hand and yet do nothing.. the significant thing seems to be that he cried when you cried. Again, who does that with their ex? Just.. like I said..WIERD!
