Continuing to do much better. In a sense I am continuing to db but exclusively for myself. I've realized the byproduct of it is that it doesn't close the door to a recon. Treating myself well, GAL, trying not to dwell on the pain and disappointment, and changing the things about myself that I want to change, for myself, through 180s, are all good for me.
I think my h is surprised.
Interestingly when he dropped by to pick up the dogs the other night, he ended up having dinner with me and a mutual friend. She said he looked terrible and sounded depressed. It's not what I see, but interesting nonetheless. He did spend most of the time complaining - hardly the dynamic of a man on the precipice of falling in love. So maybe this is MLC. One way or another, he will find it difficult to move forward without getting this woman out of his system or into his life. And that has nothing to do with me. I wish him well.
