I think he just tries to pi** me off with the Blackberry too. You know how he used to text OW in front of me so much? He was in the house seriously for about a minute tonight to pick up the kids (D9 was changing clothes as we just got back from art club) and had to use his Blackberry in front of me in my house. Plus, he's in a cranky mood, and then got upset that S15 just lost his new sneakers. So glad I don't have to deal with all his moods anymore. If the poor kids didn't have to drag everything from his to my place, they wouldn't be losing stuff as much! He won't even fork out money for a toothbrush or pillow for them! I'm thinking about just buying them an extra pillow and toothbrush and stuff like that for H's apt. I mean I guess that's anti-DB getting stuff for the kids to use at H's house,but just makes sense to not have to carry all that back & forth. Ok, I think I've whined enough for the night! Karen