Thanks Cat.

D13 seems to think that S16 will visit at some point on Christmas day. When I asked her how she knew she said he had told her he had boought me a Christmas present. I had suggested to all of them that they club together and get me a voucher for the facial products I use. D13, bless her, said she would co-ordinate this. However, when she came to buy it S16 told her he had already bought something else and D18 wasn't around to give her any money. So she went and got a voucher just from her. I definately know she bought it b/c she rang me at work to ask me the name of the local beauty salon I had told her she could get it from and where it was. She is such a thoughtful young woman. I do hope she doesn't go off the rails like the other two have at some point in thier lives.

I'm trying to stay off the computer as much as I can at the moment as I have a repetitive strain injury. So if I don't come on here again before Christmas I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and that 2009 will be a better year for you all.

I have already decided that 2009 WILL BE MY YEAR. I have set a goal in my head for the D being complete by end of March (although at the moment that is looking unlikely). It's still not what I want but I'm being realistic and I want to move on. It begins with me starting my new job on 5th Jan and who knows what else will happen but I'm going to make darned sure that as much of it as possible is good, good, good (oh and did I say good!


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15