You need to find something to do and treat today just like any other day.

Stop dwelling on what your h is/is not doing and with whom. You will make yourself so sick thinking of all the possibilities.

Maybe try some Christmas baking, etc.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19