Hi Nas, I just wanted to stop by & offer support. Given your past with your H, this must be extremely difficult for you (I can only imagine).

I'm sure with the different techniques you are using your H doesn't know what the hell to expect or think.

This is seriously a no-win situation for me. About the only thing I haven't tried is outright anger, rage, and vindictiveness.

Totally, know what you are talking about here & have then same frustration & the same thoughts at times.

Stay strong & try to keep a positive PMA (easier said than done I know).

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)