JMO, Jeff, but I have to agree. The way I see it, there are two ways to go here. One, ask her for her schedule again, or two, make the appt without it and if you have to reschedule, then you have to reschedule.

If you keep waiting on her and "testing" her, nothing's moving forward.

(((((Jeff)))))

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell