I hear you BBJ...I have a hunch he will be hanging around for a while so you are going to have to detach in spite of that. Six months ago, i was thinking everything will be fine between us (never mind last Christmas). Well it is not... we (LBS) have two ways to do this....uno: dwell on the past and what could have been or two: face the hard truth and move on ....or like Woog likes to say, move forward.