BBJ, I don't want to be the bad guy...I understand you don't want him dead in a ditch but you let the fact that he did not call you affect you...the fact that he lied about his sleep affect you....the fact that his mom is making it easier for him affect you...etc. That is all I am saying. I have been there before and part of the reason we do it is becasue we are hanging on to the past a little. THEY on the other hand could not give a hoot about us (maybe i am exagerating a tad)....not at this point...perhaps they cared in the past...maybe in the future, but now, it is ALL about them.
On the $ front, my unsollicited advice to you would be to consult a lawyer as soon as possible, if not sooner. You need to protect yourself, I don't care who's dad he is.
