Hi ((Julia)), Just been reading along. You are doing so great. Personally, if it's not that pressing - I would wait.

Unfortunately, we all here seem to know how disappointing it is to be last on the totem pole. Don't fret about it.

12 more inches of novelty snow here today. ;\) Just winding down with a stiff rum & coke ..... always makes things better. \:\)

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)