H insisted on showing up (guess b/c he wants to get primary custody still). D9 was sitting there and while I was there he was on his Blackberry or reading a book. If he actually gave a rat's patootie over the kids it wouldn't drive me so nuts.
Oh Karen.. I am VERY familiar with this type of behavior. Our stbxh's put on this front to look good. Unfortunately, they haven't been doing this stuff all along!
