Detaching is precisely what I want to do. That is why I asked the question about the banking.
If I take my money out now and start my own account, transfer all my bills into my name, etc (most already are anyway b/c I set up all utilities, etc), then I can start doing all my own decision making regarding finances, etc. That was the question I posed today, should I go open my own account now rather than waiting till he closes on his house on the 30th.
If I do, it may throw a monkey wrench in his home buying plans, I don't know. If it does, I don't want that viewed as me trying to hurt him. I just want to start taking care of myself and not having to worry about whether he is going to run up a few grand at the furniture store in both of our names, etc etc...
The only reason I asked him to let me know he made it there is b/c he is the kids' dad and I don't want him dead in a ditch. It wasn't b/c of me...but I see the point and will stop doing it.
