Horrible day today! Spent this am at the dentist for an appt. for teeth cleaning for S15 and I. H insisted on showing up (guess b/c he wants to get primary custody still). D9 was sitting there and while I was there he was on his Blackberry or reading a book. If he actually gave a rat's patootie over the kids it wouldn't drive me so nuts. Then he gave me the check for the kids and I (support/alimony). Unfortunately, banks hold banks from other checks for 2 or 3 days so I had to drive to his bank to cash it, then take a large chunk of cash over to my bank to deposit it. And this is going to happen every 2 weeks.
Dumb me, I emailed H and asked him if he would consider switching to my bank or getting the payroll dept. at his office (he's a state employee) to direct deposit it into my account. He emailed back "how you cash it is your business." So i emailed back it seems a bit inefficient to do the way we are doing and is typically done thru direct deposit. I also snarkily said sorry I thought you were actually concerned about the kids and groceries and stuff for them or I wouldn't have emailed. I don't think he gives a crap for the kids as well as me really. Yes, yes, I know I should have realized this sooner...
Went to the L's again this pm to get a copy of an order. I need a vacation from my life! Karen
