All your NEED's need to be put on hold right now. Make it all about HER. If she needs space, give her space and more space. Treat her like a cat. She will come around when she needs you.

My buddy gave me great advice:

"Stay out of W's bubble and completely emerge yourself into the kids bubble"

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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