Hey GFI..I sit in my house typing alot (for my job) and doing my dissertation.. flitting to the boards is a distraction and I want to help others too, who have helped me. But I take your point! I do need the support.
Also.. I totally agree with you. "If it were me - and I was wrapped up in a new relationship and was very much into it and knew that exGF was very much hoping to find a way of reconciling yet I didn't want that - sending a pressie and card and phoning is the very last thing I would do"
Thats how I 'view' it. I have lived with other men when younger and when I was done, I was done. The only ex I sent cards/presents to, I still loved and wanted to get back with, but was to scared to go 'backwards' into what we had, I was a WAS and never told him I still loved him. Then he got engaged and I was gutted!
So I need to post the convo we had, thats been hard for me to do today, to revisit it. But.. yes, what a turnaround, I really wasnt expecting it. And not sure what to think to be honest.
