Just updating, journaling, allowing everyone to know that there is hope & a beautiful pot of gold at the end of the rainbow!

H and I are doing really great. I honestly don't ever worry about the cheating issue. I honestly don't really ever think about the whole D bomb thing at all.

I have to remind myself a lot not to take anything for granted. I honestly still have days where I don't even really "like" my H, but I remind myself how much WORK an M really is and I make sure that I'm doing my part.

It's like you totally forget about all the bad and things start going back to exactly how they were before the Bomb and you have to constantly remind yourself that you need to keep the changes you made going and not backslide into the "old."

Ok, I'm rambling, but I just needed to get on here and let people know that "IT" can happen -- you know, your H realizes that he still does love you and wants to stay married and you live happily ever after, but with a renewed idea of what marriage is and that you can't just take it for granted.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10