EXCEPT he loves her and i am making him choose...............
My response to this comes from one of my favorite Christmas books of ALL TIME. (Please insert Boris Karloff's voice here)
"They're just waking up, I know just what they'll do. Their mouths will hang open a minute or two and the Who's down in Whoville will all cry BOO HOO!"
You are making him choose? WTF? He created this situation, not you. Don't let him make this about you and you making him choose. Its about time he reclaimed his balls and started acting like a man. A man that has a W that is sick and being made sicker by the constant stress that he is placing her under.
You did a wonderful thing and gave him a priceless gift when you were a big enough woman to call her when the S was sick. You are an amazing person and such a better person then either your H or the OW, it radiates off of the page.
Please take care of yourself and worry about your health and getting yourself to a place of wellness and wholeness for YOUR beautiful children. Let H clean up or wallow in his mess on his own. Its what I finally have had to do. It sucks and I don't like it, but this back and forth and boo hoo, woe is me. Your mean because I can't have both of you. Its a lose/lose situation, blah, blah blah...is tiresome. I'm over it. Here, let me call 911 and have them send a Wambulance to pick up your sorry ass because you have to be an adult.
I'm just fed up with people who refuse to be responsible for the messes that they have made, not only in their own lives but the lives of those that didn't have a choice in it. They go merrily along, cutting a swath of devastation and then cry because they might have to take responsibility for it. It pisses me off.
Sorry for the TJ and the rant, but your health really worries me and he is just not getting it....
Love you sis, apparently the antibiotics have made me even shinier and happier than ususal...LOL.
Take care of you and I'm here if you need me.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
