Yes, its very sad. He had a daughter that's a junior at Notre Dame, a son from a previous marriage and a disabled brother that he had to put in a home after he had his stroke. This guy took care of his brother and paid for his care. His wife just died a few years ago and now the daughter is alone. I was out at lunch and cried all the way back to work thinking of him asking why he had to be so stubborn and shovel this heavy snow by himself!
On another note, I went to IC last night and then afterwards took D to an AWESOME restaurant so I could privately celebrate getting a WONDERFUL Christmas bonus from work! This money will help SOOOO much. I couldn't tell D though, since she'd want to go to Toys R Us with the check. LOL! Anyway, I told IC about the past weekend and she feels that H spews his anger at me because he knows I love him, she said he feels safe with me and does love me. She said he really seems to be losing it and we need to step back for a bit to let him lose it on his own, but be there to LISTEN to him when needed. She said this is NOTHING because of me. It's not my fault, he's expressing the feelings he has about himself and alot of it is guilt. He thought his life would be better without me and his guilt and things he's done has made it worse. Make sense? I was crying but it was tears of feeling badly for H.
I hope my typing makes sense. I'm trying to type it all fast before a boss comes by.
