Hey everyone, thanks for reading! I havent posted the convo yet..but thats where the confusion lies Whateverittakes.. he said things about her that make this confusing! Plus, he didnt NEED to send me a card, neverlone a present. We have been apart over a year and he didnt give me either last year.
Also, yes, he does know I am not over him...so why do this, why phone, send stuff, knowing how I feel about him?? The last time I saw him, I said sorry for how I was "because of how I feel"...But yes, got to face facts, he is spending Christmas.. WITH HER. So I opened the card. It says
Dear Al, I hope you have a good Christmas and that you find the enclosed funny *Name* x
And he had put a kiss. It was a jokey penguin card (I love penguins) and a wrapped present - a book?
I'm amazed. It was posted yesterday. He took the trouble to find a card, present, nicely wrapped and went to the post office and mailed it when he was off ill (he is notoriously crap at being organised like that for friends/family, so it is surprising, kind of, going out of his way)..probably posted it as he realised once he had booked his flight, that he wont see me now until after Christmas. He probably phoned this morning as he knew he wouldnt get another chance to speak to me as he flies at 7am tommorow.
He is back on the 27th and I am back home there too...but guess she will be with him. He wanted to meet up, but was vague as to when he could, he hadnt thought further than this week he said.
Yep, very upsetting. Really tore me apart today quite honestly. I wasnt expecting it. I didnt go looking for it. I havent contacted him this week or put him on a guilt trip or sent him a card. He called me, for over an hour and didnt seem to want to get off the phone. Very bitter sweet.
And I can tell he wouldnt have told me abuot her going too, if I hadnt asked him directly! He didnt even tell his BMF that she was going. Why not? Just being a bit secretive, I dont know.
