I am only going to post one thing about W because it is so bizarre. When I came home last night she was using her sewing machine to make some of these 'heating bags' for your neck, which she sells. I asked her where the girls were and D17 was in bed (9:30) and D13 was in her room.
She said that she was taking the time to make the bags. Then she said she was going to sew the ripped sheets from MY bed that I had asked her months ago if she could fix them. Our crazy old shepherd dog gets frustrated sometimes and will jump on the bed and rip them.
Anyway, I told her that I no longer felt it was appropriate and I had someone else who could fix them, got the usual 'are you sure?' and said 'yes'.
She got the clue that she needed to leave and packed up her sewing machine and left.
This morning when I got up after she had come and gone, I noticed that she left a 'Phillips 76' gas station credit card with my name on it on the counter. We've had that card for years, it's in HER name only and I'm just an add on so they send two cards when it renews. I destroyed mine months ago. So here she tells me we're going to start the divorce process, but gives me her gas card. What a whack job.
Today IS the first day of the rest of my life without her BS. I failed to change this past year, or to change ENOUGH to make MY life better.
Yeah, I AM an Alpha male. I AM a leader. I always have been. Ask anyone who has known me personally for the past 20 years and they'll tell you that THIS Frank is not the real Frank.
