That part (anger) would be easier if the kids already knew and he was in his own house. It is this prolonged cake-eating Dan-centered lifestyle that is driving me nuts.

He said he only got 5 minutes sleep the night before last b/c he was worried about Nathan.

Then last night he drove to his mom and dad's (starting to wonder if he ever stayed with tom)and there was 2/3" of ice on everything. I asked him to text/let me know he made it safely.

He texted at 6:30 this morning, "Sorry for the late text I made it but went right to bed". So I guess he slept just fine last night. Whatever...

I really want to go put my half of savings in a new account this afternoon. I know it will totally piss him off as he asked me to wait until his loan goes through. But he is manipulating everything to make it easiest for him. Getting the loan with all of our finances in consideration, waiting to tell the kids until he has his house bought and ready to go, not filing until the new year, etc etc

Would moving my money out now be the smart, self-protecting thing to do or just a spiteful thing to do? Would 10 days really matter? Just wondering


Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17