I'm first? Wow, fix me something that will kill this cold or make me sleep long enough that I won't care.

H4H I think you are doing a great job of detaching and separate Christmases are just what the Dr. ordered. I know how hard it is for us (I fully admit it) to let them go and "feel" their choices.

You are a good man and I'm sorry she is too fogged to realize what she stands to lose. Keep being the best Roger you can and let God take care of the rest. When you give it to Him, that means you have to let it go....

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option