Hi WEIT, thanks. I live in a state that there is no legal seperation, only D. In the case of my M with more than 10 years and H having an A it is better to claim fault for financial. I have been making changes to my finances for protection.
This has been such a difficult road. I think sometimes I am still in shock but at least I have started to be proacive. Take care.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09