Yes, he talks like he is waffling, he does the confused tortured soul dance very well. However I am looking at actions.
*He is here at night to see the KIDS not me.
*He has already gone and bought a home to live in.
*He had never shown me with actions that he wants to be with me, only with words that don't match his actions.
He would have to do a lot more to sway me. I have done the load carrying way too long. The burden would be on him to ever convince me I could trust him. He just lied to me 3-4 days ago, saying he hadn't looked at the house yet while knowing he had an appointment for the very next morning. Although it isn't technically a lie--he hadn't looked at it yet--he knew full well his plan and he kept it from me. Not acceptable.
