I was reading over on Yenko's thread. I think our spouses are very similar. His is more vocal on her feelings for him. She does love him, even though she gave him the ILYNILWY thing. She loves him, just not the way a wife should love a husband.
Sounds just like my wife. I know she loves me, just not like a wife should. She knows we have a connection like no one else is going to give her. She's not going to TELL me, because she doesn't want me to get the wrong idea. I know her.
His wife told him to 'let her go'.
Mine has told me the same, and I believe that I'm just now doing that. Both of our wives also believe that we could never trust them again or truly forgive them for the affair they have had.
I think its THEM that cannot trust themselves again or forgive themselves.
Originally Posted By: H4H
Went to pick up D11 from the apartment yesterday. Inside, OM's coat was hanging on the back of a barstool next to the wife's. He must have left it there when he left in the morning. Best I can figure, she leaves in the morning before he does.
I think he does it on purpose, but screw him.
I thought about using it to make a bed for the dog outside on the patio, but decided against it. It was a trigger, but just a little different this time. I felt nearly....indifferent.
I'm letting her go, she will live her life and I'll live mine.
We can work on our R after she D's me. I plan on talking to her about getting on with our lives sometime in January, I think, and try to find out why she hasn't initiated anything yet. Confusion, financial reasons, wanting to wait out her lease, whatever.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
