Newbie here seeking advice/hope...

[Babygirl]

Vicky, bless your heart. let me tell you that 2 days before thanksgiving, I found out H and OW had a son that turned 2 the very next week, 2 days after my birthday. so my h had been going back and forth for over 3 years. I also found out the S wasnt the first pregnancy, so that makes it not an accident.

I am trying to walk the same walk you are right now, and it hurts and its hard. I set boundaries with H about being alone with the OW. and she in turn has been evil and controling, and now wont let me around thier son. its a huge mess, but maybe we can learn to walk this road together!! there are a few of us here dealing with this same problem.

hang in there, you arent alone, and it hurts, I know!
Hugs