Welcome back! Dam*, I knew when I listed all those who responded to me, I'd leave someone out. Sorry! ...
Hey buddy no need to apologize. I should apologize to plenty of folks here because I just disappeared for a good while. But I needed to go focus on me and all too often hanging around too much kept me from moving forward in a way I needed. So I had to step back from the forums for a while.
Now back to subject at hand, your friends here want to help make sure you don't rebound and actually take a step or two backwards. If you haven't read this thread. Lots of good advice and insight here.
I will also offer this advice. If it is a rebound relationship, it's best to recognize it early on then use it as a step in the right direction for you both. Take it slow, take it easy, be sure to maintain your own life and don't get physical because that just muddies up the water WAY TO MUCH. No need to go play in minefields when you don't have to. Lastly, enjoy each moment first and don't pressure yourself or her about the future.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
