Feeling pretty churned up and in shock today! I honestly wasnt expecting to hear from him until after Christmas. He phoned, at like 10.20 am (we were on the phone till 11.30 I think, so quite a while!)
...so before the skiing with her revelation, he was asking me what I was doing and said he was going to our hometown and he said it a few times, and I said "were you offering me a lift, becuase tommorow is too early for me really with Millie" (our cat).. and he said, no sorry as I will have to leave today I meant...
So clearly he wasnt offering me a lift and at that point, I didnt know he was going with her. But he didnt say thats why he couldnt give me a lift. There was this air of making out he was alone???
I wonder how SIL will get on with her? I get on well with SIL and saw her recently. His brother met Helen the summer when we were still together - thats how I fouind out about her. Its pretty public, to go with his brother (who gets on my ex's nerves and he doesnt like SIL !!) wonder if it will be good/bad?
I really need some help here guys! I feel churned up. I'm so amazed he called and sent me a card and pressie (we've been split up a year) but then, its so bitter sweet and hurts alot.
