Well, it made me feel a tiny bit better. I can't stand all the "poor H" that I've heard, including from him. It's just inappropriate.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012