For the Guy with Kids and a WW Twenty One

[hopeful4her]

Went to pick up D11 from the apartment yesterday. Inside, OM's coat was hanging on the back of a barstool next to the wife's. He must have left it there when he left in the morning. Best I can figure, she leaves in the morning before he does.

I think he does it on purpose, but screw him.

I thought about using it to make a bed for the dog outside on the patio, but decided against it. It was a trigger, but just a little different this time. I felt nearly....indifferent.

I'm letting her go, she will live her life and I'll live mine.

We can work on our R after she D's me. I plan on talking to her about getting on with our lives sometime in January, I think, and try to find out why she hasn't initiated anything yet. Confusion, financial reasons, wanting to wait out her lease, whatever.