Oh.. yeah should clarify, I meant, its not that big a deal what he did in terms of the morgage company.. but I totally agree with M.. he's doing this whilst still M to you, so thats really wierd isnt it, as it is a marital debt and would affect the D if he goes tht far, but I dont know how all that side of things works??
Sounds like you have no choice about telling people, like you say, as its a small town and people will notice. Why is your MIL being so wierd!? I cant tell from your posts.. but does she actually know you are S, or not!??
