Thanks, Cookie. H never really pulled his weight either, so I'm kind of used to some of this. And his family never really stepped in for us (altho they did for others) for transportation, child care, etc. So that's not much different either. I think I'm just feeling it more these days, and especially this busy week. But D is done with school at 3, and I was technically done yesterday but am doing data entry today. And aside from some data entry over the holiday, we have 2 weeks off together. I can do data entry from home--and don't mind doing it because I will get paid. So things calm down considerably soon.
Still haven't had a reply from the principal. I wouldn't be surprised if he ignores it.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012