Hmm.. rock and hard place, I remember saying that.. I am sorry your stress levels are so high, theres alot of wierdness, I feel like things are swirling, you know? (I got a phonecall. I FB'd you in my panic!)
So you're going for coffee, but not sure about the evening do at his place of work? Why is that? Are you concerned about going 'public' with him with things how they are, or are you just fed up with him today?? Hugs...