I will tell her when I call in a bit. No we actually live far apart but we have been talking a lot lately on phone. It is ok to be scared, she scared me with it too and our friend LE actually is the one who told me where those words came from.
Keep posting and praying. It is so good for her and all of us to see it and know we aren't alone through all of this.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.