I just think that your h wants a fresh start. Personal things are a reminder of good or bad times. Memores flood in that are constant reminders of oh I remember when we bought our furniture together etc.
When you start fresh, then those constant reminders are NO longer there. Just my thoughts.
You sound good. Try not to allow the holidays to get you down. This will be my 3rd year without h for Christmas if he doesn't show. I am praying that my h not get into depression this Christmas season.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"