In all fairness to h, in his mind he had given me some money to set aside in savings, which I did, but I wasn't expecting him to ask for that back to pay rent, since that money was set aside for other things and he knew that. We had discussed what it was set aside for and it really caught me off guard when he wanted it.

I would have managed our money a little better if I knew that he was going to request that back. Oh well, it's done. He said on Mon he would give it back so I could put it back in savings.

I have to just try to let the finances go. He is not ready yet to think us not him expecially with the my money comment. Oh really and I guess this is my house.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"