Hey Sep

That's so good. Now for 20 questions... ;\) I think that expectations naturally go along with goals unfortunately, but I think it is how you manage those expectations which are the key. I think basically realising that things may take a little longer than you think/ hope and also realising that some things don't work and some things do and not to get discouraged if something doesn't work. I also break it down into 3 things, will I get a

Positive reaction
No reaction
Negative reaction

I don't count no reaction as negative as who knows what is going on behind closed doors, but I do focus my efforts more on the positive reactions and stop all negative reactions.

So you want your h to know more about your personal life? I see that more as you want your h to start taking an interest in you? Do you agree? With that in mind maybe you need to be a little more coy about your personal life so he has to ask you questions if he wants to know. What sparks your h's interest? What has done in the past, when you first got together and what maintained that interest while you were married/ together? What new things could you do that would evoke interest? I am sure that whatever you do will make you feel so good you will shine with confidence, thus making you more attractive. I think this also may help towards your goal of him coming round once a week. Are there any activities you can do together?

I think maybe the next stage on from sparking interest will be affection. I think of all the goals with a WAS this is one of the hardest to achieve as their guilt and insecurities stop them. But, has he given you any recently? If so, what happened to precipitate it?

M- May 2006
D - Aug 2010
Now travelling the world