When W talks, Make it all about HER. You need to LISTEN and remember every detail as if you will later need to type it back here to me. Validate what she says.......
"Ahhhh" "Hmmmmm"
"I can see why you feel that way" "It must be hard to feel that way" "I can understand why you feel that way"
Fully engage in the conversation. Full eye contact. Hang on every word she says. While she is talking, fantasize about kissing her lips..... ALWAYS SAY LESS THAN SHE DOES. Do not argue about how she feels.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
