Listening and Learning

[techguy]

Hi Beth,

OK... so one last post before I hit the sack.

I was actually thinking of this relative to my own sitch, but it really applies to your situation as well. So I thought I would post it over here.

My thought was that our WAS's mind is <always> at work:

Sometimes they see us LBS'es. They note our changes and that is a good thing.
But sometimes they <don't> see us LBS'es. But even then, this is still useful. It's these very times where your husband finally clearly see's that his issues are truely his.

So the message is that there is opporitunity for progress in the R 24-hours a day! It's so easy to think that there can only be progress in those occasions where WAS is interacting with us. The truth is soooo much better!