Hi WIT. It is a big decision to drop the rope. In reading your previous sitch, I do think your H is in a MLC. I think all of us have someone in our past that we say "what if", but to act on it -- I never think the fantasy will meet with the reality but that is my own personal opinion. Your H will have to figure that out.

I think you are strong and confident. Just take your time with meeting other men. We are very vulnerable right now and another relationship too soon can be a negative instead of a positive. take care.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09