Trapt, thanks I will see were it goes and temper my response based on what she says, I think this is big that she has finally asked me to do something together.
Imageer, I will denfinitely insist that if she wants to work on things OM is gone. ! I feel that this is heading this way. My inlaws even told her that he would never be welcome at family events.!
Ian, I believe I do want to go not because my W is going to be there but because I would like to see everyone else. If by chance something good came for my W and me then that would be gravy.
Thanks fo the response guys, Give me a kick in the head if I need it.
Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me