Cagz,

Follow your heart Cagz. You have excellent instincts. Do only what is best for YOU. Enough is enough with these ML'ers.

Only you will know what to do.

I think about you everyday Cagz. It is so painful right now.
Set your boundaries and keep them. You deserve a healthy happy life. You are a great person. Your ex is a fool right now and I know he will come to regret his behaviors.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11