Julia~ I would never disregard you!! Ask away!! I guess I really do have mini goals but I had gotten so caught up with my goals and expectations that I think I started to get upset when certain things weren't met or came to a halt for awhile. My goals are to have H want to know more about my personal life and him asking these personal questions over the past few days did feel very good...I also want him to be more affectionate, I'll start off with hugs for now!!
I do eventually want H to move back in. I am going to try to go with the flow, I will continue to keep up the conversations as he does. I will initiate conversations and hopefully this will cause him to initiate some also.
ITH~ Yes if I can get h to come over at least once a week I would be VERY happy and it would be a great indication that I am on my way to my goal.
You guys are 100% right!! Thanks so much for getting my head back on to the right track...I guess I was just getting frustrated. I needed that.
