Finding my goodness and power

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If you were to not reconcile with your W and moved on to another R, is your W going to come over in the morning or in the evening to make food for the kids while you have another woman in the house? That's not going to work.

Your Ws relationship with your kids will be what it will be and it probably won't be good. You will not be able to make it better. These are the consequences of her actions and she has to learn them the hard way. After you are D, your house will no longer be her house and you shouldn't have to provide your house every time she wants to be with the kids.