And tonight is her "Thursday night make dinner at the house with the girls". Pretty brazen. She truly has no idea how her choices hurt others. And why now? Probably because I pushed the 'separation' stuff the past 2 weeks.
And I will not sign anything until I am sure I'm not agreeing to anything I don't want to agree to. I can sit on it as long as I like. Remember, her nature is to avoid conflict so she'll ask for the basic stuff and expect me to just go "Oh, ok, here ya go".