Originally Posted By: frank_D
Originally Posted By: AmyC

But are you saying that you spent your whole counseling session talking about your wife?

Because that is the most wasteful thing I can imagine you doing right now.

No, I spent the majority talking about how I need to rediscover myself and my strengths. We spent a short time discussing some of the crap she's been slinging at my D's.Fair enough.

We spent a LONG time discussing how I stay in relationships where I don't get my needs met, and why.Good.

As far as a lawyer and stuff, she has yet to present her 'uncontested divorce' documents from "Documents and More..." so let's see what she is asking for.Don't sign anything.

I do not intend to be a martyr.The road to hell is paved with good intentions and old habits are hard to break. We ALL hope that you won't be.