But are you saying that you spent your whole counseling session talking about your wife?
Because that is the most wasteful thing I can imagine you doing right now.
No, I spent the majority talking about how I need to rediscover myself and my strengths. We spent a short time discussing some of the crap she's been slinging at my D's.
We spent a LONG time discussing how I stay in relationships where I don't get my needs met, and why.
As far as a lawyer and stuff, she has yet to present her 'uncontested divorce' documents from "Documents and More..." so let's see what she is asking for.